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      <image:title>Blog - Kyoto: Some updated recommendations - Ponto-cho</image:title>
      <image:caption>Ponto-cho, the narrow street of restaurants and bars squeezed against the west bank of the Kamo River, can be intimidating. In the past I have avoided it, seeing it as over-run by tourists. I also worried about getting cornered in a restaurant that was over-priced or too fancy for my comfort. On this trip, Ken and I decided to set aside those concerns and give it a shot. We visited two evenings in a row, just as the sun was going down. It was a bit before peak party time, so we avoided the rush. We were successful—below are two nice places that didn’t break the bank. Pro-tip: the best time to visit Ponto-cho is in summertime, when restaurants open their back patios for al fresco riverfront dining. In December, those decks are closed off. We’ll have to come back again in summertime, what a shame!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Kyoto: Some updated recommendations - Pontako Sakura （ぽんたこ佐蔵）</image:title>
      <image:caption>We were attracted by the little takeout window facing the street where the chef flipped golf-ball-sized takoyaki (bbq octopus in an eggy crepe batter). Leaving our shoes in the entry, we sat at a small bar with room for about ten people. We sat on tatami but there was space below the bar for our legs, so it was quite comfortable. We both had a drink and snack (I had yakisoba noodles) while watching the chef work in his tiny, storefront kitchen little larger than a roomy telephone booth. (https://www.palplan.net/pontako/photo/)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Kyoto: Some updated recommendations - Idzumoya（先斗町いづもや）</image:title>
      <image:caption>As you enter Ponto-cho from Shijo Ohashi bridge, turn into the first place on your right and go up the stairs to the second floor. Here is a cute restaurant with good shabu-shabu, sukiyaki, and unagi (eel). The food service was quick, friendly, and relaxed. The view of the bridge was spectacular. As an aside, we were surprised when our eel came covered with a thin layer of egg, which we’d never seen before. It was quite tasty though, and more filling than a regular unagi set meal. https://www.idumoya.co.jp</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>1994 graduation from George Washington University with an M.A. in International Affairs. That’s me with my soon-to-be-husband Ken, a History major.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>at Tennessee Valley Trail, Mill Valley CA (photo by Valerie Saul)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The red-crowned crane</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The Medina at night</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Consisting of clay pot stews (tajine), French-style pastries, couscous, and salads, the food was uniformly delicious. Fresh mint tea was served up practically every time we sat down. Vegetarians will be challenged, as most dishes are meat-based, and the squeamish will want to look the other way when passing display cases containing goat heads, eyeballs, and freshly butchered meat.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Haggling in the souks is standard, but I was surprised at how little the final sale price budged despite my heartfelt negotiations. For example, if 350 dirhams was the initial offered price, we settled at around 300. I had been told to expect fifty percent cuts from the initial price. The Terraces des Épices is a quiet(er) oasis in the mayhem and has a wonderful patisserie for a break from shopping. The Ensemble Artisanal has a smaller selection, but there is no haggling or high-pressure sales, and the quality is high. (Photo by Genevieve Kocienda)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In Imlil, looking toward Jebel Toubkal, the tallest peak in Northern Africa</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This cat is clearly loved.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Photo: Ken Kocienda</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Exterior of rental machiya in Gion area.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Matsuno (松乃). Great unagi (eel) restaurant in Gion, close to Yasaka Shrine. It’s expensive, but there is no better. (https://www.yelp.com/biz/祇をん-松乃-東山区)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Nadai Tonkatsu – This little hole in the wall (almost literally) is right at the entrance to Teramachi, one of the covered shopping streets in the Sanjo Kawaramachi area (see below). It looks distinctly unpromising outside, but it’s quite nice once you squeeze down the narrow hallway and head downstairs, and the tonkatsu is truly top-notch.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Hanami-koji Street early in the morning, still fast asleep. It's a nocturnal neighborhood.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Kiyomizu-dera (清水寺). A wild and wooly marriage of Buddhism and Shinto. There are so many nooks and crannies in this place, it takes two or three hours to explore. If you like good luck charms, this is your lucky day. Drink from the waters of luck, buy charms and protective amulets, pray for good test scores, make the blind walk between the love stones. And of course, check out the iconic promontory jutting out over the valley. Enjoy the Ninenzaka/Sannensaka shopping streets that leads to the temple for souvenirs. (Photo: Ken Kocienda)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Teramachi Street (寺町通) and Nishiki Market (錦市場). Japanese-style shopping streets in central Kyoto. Great for shopping, getting something to eat, people watching, and street scenes. (http://www.savoryjapan.com/travel/kyoto/nishiki.market.html) Nishiki is a traditional Japanese covered food market street. Even after living in Japan for a long time I did not know what a lot of those foods were. There is a lot of fresh fish and Japanese root vegetables and spices. To the uninitiated nose, the smell is not great, but just take in the intensity and strangeness of it. I am afraid the last couple times I went here it was completely overrun by tourists. Still worth it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Jean will be at Mill Valley Public Library on June 26, 2023</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Stars look down on the flutter of bed drapes below and imagine Tendrils of nether women’s hair 夜の帳に ささめき尽きし星の今を 下界の人の 鬢のほつれよ</image:caption>
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